#feelingconfused
This might sound odd but it happens to a lot of us (by this i mean single and no seen, not sure).Does he like you? was the title i read up at epphany.com by google on twitter. And i wanted to share my views. Please note, my views also applies to women as well. ( so don't think of me as a feminist).The 5 steps to note by this Epphany are as follows:
5:HE IS TOUCHY
They say that being touchy;shows he is emotional and vulnerable.
The matters of the heart can be tricky but i don't want it to be confused with actions like; when he seems to be checking your phones call log, or calls you up at random every day, asking where you are? whom you are with? (A.k.a Psycho tendency or mad man ability) Always loses his temper when you don't agree with him. Now! that could best describe being touchy.
4:HE IS LOOKING AT YOUR LIPS
This is an unspoken way that shows he is sexually attracted to you. If you ever watch Telenova or Telemundo or the Indian series. They tend to show this displayed characteristics. In Nigeria, it could mean he is shy but also could mean he is a sexual pervert, original player.My meaning they all do the same moves, so that number 4 it's not clear. He might even have eye problems, but if a guy looks straight at your breast,as the 80's song goes " it's all about sex baby!...."
3:HE CAN'T STOP SMILING AT YOU.
Hmm! watch Discovery channel or the Wild life channel on D.S.T.V, the predator always smiles at the prey. See the picture to this. Do you think the king fisher was angry when he caught that good fish? No! he was smiling home. If he smiles a lot like my friend Manji who was born that way, because the muscles on his face move just one other direction except when he eats.Lol! okay! seriously, if there are no jokes said, comedy watched. The man is CRAZY! RUN!
2: HE IS GENUINELY NICE TO YOU
No more Mr. nice Guy! Is that statement true? Honestly, i don't know. Define what is nice? opening the door, or introducing you to his friends? Asking your opinion on the menu? Or ignoring you when football is on the tv? I don't know but you should.for instance your girlfriend leaves you alone, whenever her friends shows up? or he never says thank you, at all. In Lagos, its scarce to meet really nice people, even in church. People seems to be nice to you for something to gain. Don't believe me? Ask the everyday working class Nigerian.
1: YOU JUST HAVE THAT GUT FEELING!
My take on this is simple. Your "GUT" is also called your stomach. you know that saying " you have butterflies in your tummy whenever he is around, because you love him" STORY!
It could be hunger that is confusing you, your stomach was not designed for detecting your emotions. Your "Belly" can feel funny whenever you are nervous, not when you are in love.
To yourself but true! that's the best advise i can give you.
So, be careful of all the junk, romantic, psychological things written up on the internet. Think them through, please. Do act on every information ladies and gents. Have a great day!
